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gasmandave
05-08-2007, 12:13 PM
This was posted by "sid-the-sloth" on 4x4him's forum.

As Christians we should all be striving to live like this, I found it a very neat story.


>> >Let's see if you send it back. We all know or knew someone like
>>this!!
>> >
>> >One day, when I was a freshman in high school,
>> >
>> >I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
>> >
>> >His name was Kyle.
>> >
>> >It looked like he was carrying all of his books.
>> >
>> >I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books
>>on a
>> >Friday?
>> >
>> >He must really be a nerd."
>> >
>> >I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with
>>my friends
>> >tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.
>> >
>> >As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
>> >
>> >They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and
>>tripping him so
>> >he landed in the dirt.
>> >
>> >His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about
>>ten feet
>> >from him
>> >
>> >He looked up and I saw th is terrible sadness in his eyes
>> >
>> >My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him as he crawled
>>around
>> >looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.
>> >
>> >As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. "
>> >
>> >They really should get lives.
>> >
>> >" He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"
>> >
>> >There was a big smile on his face.
>> >
>> >It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.
>> >
>> >I helped him pick up his books, and ask ed him where he lived.
>> >
>> >As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had
>>never seen him
>> >before.
>> >
>> >He said he ha d gone to private school before now.
>> >
>> >I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.
>> >
>> >We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.
>> >
>> >He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.
>> >
>> >I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my
>>friends
>> >
>> >He said yes.
>> >
>> >We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more
>>I liked
>> >him, and my friends thought the same of him.
>> >
>> >Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of
>>books again.
>> >
>> >I stopped him and said , "Boy, you are gonna really build some
>>serious
>> >muscles with this pile of books everyday!
>> >
>> >" He just laughed and handed me half the books.
>> >
>> >Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends.
>> >
>> >When we were seniors we began to think about college.
>> >
>> >Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.
>> >
>> >I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would
>>never be a
>> >problem.
>> >
>> >He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a
>>football
>> >scholarship.
>> >
>> >Kyle was valedictorian of our class.
>> >
>> >I teased him all the time about being a nerd.
>> >
>> >He had to prepare a speech for graduation.
>> >
>> >I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak
>> >
>> >Graduation day, I saw Kyle.
>> >
>> >He looked great.
>> >
>> >He was one of those guys that really found himself during high
>>school.
>> >
>> >He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.
>> >
>> >He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.
>> >
>> >Boy, sometimes I was jealous!
>> >Today was one of those days.
>> >
>> >I could see that he was nervous about his speech.
>> >
>> >So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be
>>great!"
>> >
>> >He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one)
>>and
>> >smiled.
>> >
>> >" Thanks," he said.
>> >
>> >As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began
>> >
>> >"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it
>>through those
>> >tough years.
>> >
>> >Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but
>>mostly your
>> >friends...
>> >
>> >I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is
>>the best
>> >gift you can give them.
>> >
>> >I am going to tell you a story."
>> >
>> >I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of
>>the first
>> >day we met.
>> >
>> >He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.
>> >
>> >He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom
>>wouldn't have to
>> >do it later and was carrying his stuff home.
>> >
>> >He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.
>> >
>> >"Thankfully, I was saved.
>> >
>> >My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."
>> >
>> >I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular
>>boy told us
>> >all about his weakest moment.
>> >
>> >I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same
>>grateful smile.
>> >
>> >Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.
>> >
>> >Never underestimate the power of your actions.
>> >
>> >With one small gesture you can change a person's life.
>> >
>> >For better or for worse.
>> >
>> >God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in
>>some way.
>> >
>> >Look for God in others.
>> >
>> >You now have two choices, you can:
>> >
>> >1) Pass this on to your friends or
>> >
>> >2) Delete it and act like it didn't touch yo ur heart.
>> >
>> >As you can see, I took choice number 1.
>> >"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have
>>trouble
>> >remembering how to fly."
>> >
>> >There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.
>> >
>> >Tomorrow is a mystery.
>> >
>> >Today is a gift

99NCXJ
05-08-2007, 12:26 PM
thats a great story...i just posted it on nc4x4

Thumpszilla
05-08-2007, 01:38 PM
Thanks for sharing this!! :grin:

Gordon
05-08-2007, 01:46 PM
I have seen this before. It is so very true, you just never know how you can make a difference.

Dino1967
05-08-2007, 03:21 PM
thanks

F9K9
05-08-2007, 07:50 PM
Thanks

http://img246.imageshack.us/img246/8399/thumbsup4kk.gif

99NCXJ
05-08-2007, 09:51 PM
well, like i said above, i posted this to nc4x4.com well...I don't think they enjoyed it very much. I actually feel sorry for the most of them that were offended. It seems like everytime you mention God, everyone gets all in a wad. oh well...maybe its good for them.

HANO
05-08-2007, 10:50 PM
Yeah, I went over to NC4x4 and checked it out a second ago....

Man I tell you, it makes my heart ache when I am reminded that there are so many unbelievers out there in our midst. It is always difficult to bear when someone discounts the very foundation of your life and the basis of your eternal salvation. :cry:

Pitch
05-08-2007, 11:07 PM
That hits hard, thanks a bunch.

Gordon
05-09-2007, 06:28 AM
.... oh well...maybe its good for them.

It is indeed. If it reaches just one of God's children to take that second thought, it has had a positive result. As long as there are non-believers, our work is unfinished.

gasmandave
05-09-2007, 07:27 AM
Went over to nc4x4 and registered so I could add posts. They pulled your post 99NCXJ! :cry: That's ok, we just have to be persistant until they banish us from their board!

TiredIronGRB
05-09-2007, 08:15 AM
Matt 10:14
If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave that home or town.

Posting like that on secular sites usually gets that type response, what really makes a difference is them seeing Jesus through your life on a consistant basis.

Want2Wheel
05-09-2007, 08:19 AM
That is so true.

HANO
05-09-2007, 09:35 AM
Went over to nc4x4 and registered so I could add posts. They pulled your post 99NCXJ! :cry: That's ok, we just have to be persistant until they banish us from their board!

http://www.nc4x4.com/forums/showthread.php?p=185391&posted=1#post185391

HANO
05-09-2007, 09:38 AM
George is correct, I have posted and debated on many secular forums, and it has always ended in frustration for me. You cannot get one on one dialouge, you have to talk to 5 or 6 people that are just shooting jokes with abrasive comments.

BillM
05-09-2007, 10:21 AM
I know the feeling of that.

BTW if you aren't a member of NC4x4 then you can't view threads on there. Or at least I can't.

SamuraiGuyTN
05-09-2007, 12:10 PM
Yeah, I went over to NC4x4 and checked it out a second ago....

Man I tell you, it makes my heart ache when I am reminded that there are so many unbelievers out there in our midst. It is always difficult to bear when someone discounts the very foundation of your life and the basis of your eternal salvation. :cry:

I dunno, I wouldn't call all of them non beleivers. I know there are alot of people out there that are belivers in Christ but don't understand the Word fully. Im sure they feel that some people are just craming religion down their throat, sorta like "preaching to the choir". There are alot of others that do that too. Either way, they should have at least shown respect for a person's belief no matter how uncomfortable they may have felt. my 2 cents

HANO
05-09-2007, 12:24 PM
I was mainly implying that sometimes you forget how many non-believers that are in our midst (not just in that topic on NC4x4 , but in general). I know there are a few professors, but the majority of the replies I've noticed to that topic, did not seem Faith based (not suprised, just grieved). Although you can believe Christ is who He says He is, and still not be a Christian, "..... "You believe that God is one; you do well. Even the demons believe--and shudder!" Simply admiting He is God is one thing, giving Him Lordship over your life and relinquishing your self to Him is another...

J.R.

SamuraiGuyTN
05-09-2007, 01:14 PM
TRUE, I agree

gasmandave
05-09-2007, 02:57 PM
Hano, I'm registered wiyh them and viewed 99ncxj's post but now I'm locked out and can' t view it. I guess they don't like me. I got locked out after I posted my signature.

99NCXJ
05-10-2007, 11:19 AM
Yea, atleast some of them are asking questions now. I know Matt. 10:14 says to basically leave, but someone has to be around to answer questions for those who may have been touched.

and no...our work will never be done. As sad as that is.

Want2Wheel
05-10-2007, 11:51 AM
They will come and find you if they really have questions.

crackerjack
05-18-2007, 10:32 PM
That story took me back to a sunny afternoon on a school bus.

There was a bunch of older guys that liked to pick on everyone. I was being picked on at home by my father so it was just another day to me.

A kid that was mentally handicapped was on the bus and they took some tape and stuck it to his head. I stood up and told them if they did that to him, they would have to do it to me also.

I was use to being kicked and slapped by someone bigger so while they hit me it gave me a chance to deliver a few of my own. They soon realized it was much fun anymore and left the kid and I alone.

This kid thought I hung the moon from then on. But for me it was a turning point. I went home and clinched my fist. My father, like the bullies on the bus decided it wasn't fun anymore. So began a new chapter in my life!!!